Conflict Resolution and Emotional Recovery During Divorce with Kat Newport
S1 E14 • Sep 4, 2024 • 23 minsJamie M. Lima introduces Kat Newport, highlighting her journey into conflict resolution. They discuss understanding priorities and setting agendas with empathy, as well as strategies for minimizing conflicts and building a supportive network. Kat shares insights on dealing with emotional burnout, rebuilding relationships post-divorce, and preventing past conflicts from affecting future relationships. The conversation covers effective communication strategies and the impact of tone during divorce.
Navigating Chaotic Marriages and Financial Implications with Larry Bilotta
S1 E13 • Aug 28, 2024 • 35 minsJamie M. Lima is joined by Larry Bilotta to explore the complexities of relationships involving "chaos kids." They discuss the unique marital challenges and financial implications these individuals face. The conversation covers legal considerations, including mediation, and delves into issues like infidelity, narcissism, and midlife crises. Larry emphasizes the importance of fostering kindness and addresses the initial shock of divorce. They also discuss decision-making, letting go of the savior complex, and dealing with guilt.
Transforming Divorce into Growth: Mindset and Vision with Joey Drolshagen
S1 E12 • Aug 21, 2024 • 25 minsJamie M. Lima introduces Joey A. Drolshagen, focusing on the critical role of mindset during divorce. They explore overcoming conditioning and emotional barriers, with a particular emphasis on the unique challenges and growth opportunities men face. Joey shares insights on creating a vision and managing finances post-divorce. They discuss the importance of seeking support, avoiding negativity, and overcoming victimhood while finding common ground. The episode concludes by highlighting the importance of professional help and offering closing thoughts for those navigating the divorce process.
Leveraging Adversity and Mindset for Growth During Divorce with Liam Naden
S1 E11 • Aug 14, 2024 • 40 minsJamie M. Lima welcomes Liam Naden, who shares his journey through divorce and rebuilding his life. They discuss leveraging adversity for growth and success, emphasizing the crucial role of mindset in overcoming divorce challenges. Liam explains how embracing uncertainty can enhance resilience, and they delve into the brain's role in navigating tough times. They conclude by stating the importance of building a support network and using available resources.
Financial Stability and Empowerment Post-Divorce with Angela Duncan
S1 E10 • Aug 7, 2024 • 27 minsJamie M. Lima and Angela Duncan dive into the financial essentials for those navigating life post-divorce. Angela shares her background and provides practical advice on budgeting, building an emergency reserve, and avoiding debt. They discuss common financial mistakes, essential steps to achieve financial stability, and the importance of shifting your money mindset. The episode covers smart housing decisions, crafting a post-divorce investment strategy, and the role of a financial advisor. Listeners will learn about balancing financial goals with life enjoyment, core satellite investment approaches, and planning for passive income and retirement.
Overcoming Stigma and Embracing Self-Care During Divorce with Melanie Yates
S1 E9 • Jul 31, 2024 • 40 minsJamie M. Lima welcomes Melanie Yates to discuss overcoming isolation and addressing the stigma associated with divorce. They highlight the importance of self-care during divorce proceedings and introduce the emotional freedom technique (EFT). Melanie clarifies the difference between self-care and selfishness, emphasizing the need for personal goal-setting. A practical exercise with a priorities worksheet is shared, and they discuss delegating financial stress to professionals. The episode underscores the value of trusting experts and understanding the roles of financial advisors and attorneys.
Mindfulness, Emotional Resilience, and Financial Strategies in Midlife Divorce with Dr. Natalie Marr
S1 E8 • Jul 24, 2024 • 26 minsJamie Lima welcomes Dr. Natalie Marr, who shares her background and personal experience with divorce. They discuss the unique challenges of midlife divorces, the emotional toll of unfulfilling relationships, and the grieving process. Dr. Marr emphasizes the importance of maintaining values, the role of mindfulness in stress management, and the neurobiological effects of divorce. They explore strategies for mindfulness, setting future goals, and achieving financial independence. The episode also covers the significance of emotional grounding in financial planning, balancing emotional and rational decision-making, and the value of a support team.
Leveraging Thought Leadership and Resilience for Men in Divorce with Nicky Billou
S1 E7 • Jul 17, 2024 • 28 minsJamie Lima introduces Nikki Billou, who shares his insights on becoming a thought leader and building personal resilience through divorce. Nikki discusses his background and journey into coaching, emphasizing the importance of thought leadership during the divorce process. They explore the critical role of support systems, offer key advice for those currently navigating divorce, and discuss maintaining a professional image post-divorce.
Handling Tax Debt in Divorce with Morgan Anderson
S1 E6 • Jul 10, 2024 • 22 minsJamie M. Lima and Morgan Anderson discuss the critical role of addressing tax issues during divorce. They cover tax debt responsibility, the innocent spouse rule, strategies to minimize tax burdens, and filing status considerations. Morgan shares a case study and offers final advice on managing tax issues.
Understanding Marital Assets, Debts, and Equitable Distribution
S1 E5 • Jul 3, 2024 • 14 minsJamie Lima delves into understanding marital assets and debts, the significance of the separation date, and the treatment of separate property. Learn about equitable distribution vs. community property, how to value marital assets accurately, and the importance of gathering relevant documents.
Finding the right financial adviser during and after divorce
S1 E4 • Jun 26, 2024 • 22 minsJamie M. Lima emphasizes the importance of choosing the right financial adviser during a divorce. He outlines his qualifications and the role of a CDFA®, shares a real-life example of financial misunderstandings, and offers guidance on post-divorce financial planning. He also covers how to verify an adviser's background, explains fiduciary vs. suitability standards, and provides tips on beginning the search and questions to ask potential advisers.
Effective communication and financial transparency in divorce
S1 E3 • Jun 19, 2024 • 22 minsThis episode covers the critical role of communication during divorce, drawing from Jamie's professional and personal experiences. It delves into emotional complexities, courtroom consequences of poor communication, and effective techniques like "I statements" and active listening. It also emphasizes transparency in financial discussions, gathering necessary documents, and the benefits of mediation.
Documenting assets, understanding debts, and post-divorce budgeting
S1 E2 • Jun 12, 2024 • 16 minsIn this episode, Jamie introduces the crucial concept of financial assessments in divorce. He emphasizes the importance of documenting personal belongings, financial assets, income, and expenses. Jamie also discusses post-divorce budgeting and the necessary tools for financial inventory. Listeners are provided with a free inventory worksheet and information about upcoming episodes.
Navigating divorce: Emotional impact, building support, and becoming your life's CEO
S1 E1 • Jun 5, 2024 • 21 minsIn this episode, Jamie Lima shares insights on financial empowerment during divorce, discussing the emotional toll it can have on you, and the importance of a support network. He underscores the role of financial advisors and previews upcoming talks on asset division, support payments, and expense management. The episode wraps up by pointing out resources available on the Allegiant Divorce Solutions website.
Broke Up, Not Broke(n)
Trailer • Apr 24, 2024 • 1 minsIn this episode, Jamie M. Lima discusses the mission of "Broke Up, Not Broke(n)", provides insights on financial planning during divorce, and identifies the target audience. He also delves into the emotional aspects of divorce and how they can impact financial success. The episode concludes with inspiring post-divorce success stories.